Charity Birthday Party Idea: Stuffed Animal Party

By Mom Unplugged, May 7, 2010 5:51 pm

Birthday parties don’t have to involve a depressing influx of cheap, unwanted (at least by parents!), commercial toys. If you can convince your children that family gifts suffice, you might be able to turn that excess of birthday party gift generosity into birthday giving generosity.

I really believe that children are charitable by nature. They just need to be taught about the needs of others and encouraged to engage in charitable work and giving. My hope is that this will help create more sensitive and socially conscious adults.

My 9 year-old daughter has enjoyed charity birthday parties for many years now. I already wrote about her first Humane Society birthday party (she has had several of these and one of her friends is doing it now too). After a few more years of charity parties, I now have more ideas to share with you.

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Today’s idea is the Kids-in-Need Stuffed Animal Party.

One year my daughter had a birthday party where she asked the guests to each bring one, new (tags on) stuffed animal to take to our local hospital Emergency Room. They give them out to very sick or injured children who come in and need a little extra comfort.

I am such a proud mama when I say that she came up with this idea entirely on her own. My sister is a physician in our local Emergency Room and having visited her aunt there, my daughter knew that they handed out stuffed animals.

In keeping with the stuffed animal theme, our party craft was stuffing our own animals with easy and inexpensive kits that I bought on Amazon. The kids LOVED this! My intention was that they add their animals to the donate basket, but this proved to be very unpopular and every single child elected to keep their animal (including my children). That’s OK, at least they had fun and went home with a much-loved party favor.

TIPS:

  • Make sure you check with your local Emergency Room first to see if they would even want stuffed animals, and if so, what kind. Ours wanted tags on and no buttons or other things that could be pulled off to become choking hazards.
  • Police and Sheriffs also sometimes carry stuffed animals in their cars to comfort any children they meet in accidents or other bad situations. See if your local law enforcement departments might be interested, and what they would want.
  • Based on experience, I recommend that the donated animals “disappear” after the party or younger family members might start falling in love with them!

(More ideas to come!)

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Keeping Girls “Girls”

By Mom Unplugged, May 3, 2010 12:11 pm

One benefit of no TV that had never occurred to me when I began this experiment after the birth of my daughter nine and a half years ago, is the lack of exposure to “sexy teens!” I am shocked sometimes when I see how some teens and tweens, dress and act. I really am not a conservative person, in fact I consider myself to be quite liberal, but I do believe that 9 year-old girls are emotionally girls and NOT women. What ever happened to childhood?

Some might think it backward (please don’t flame me), but I am SO relieved that my 9 1/2 year-old daughter still believes in Santa and the Tooth Fairy. She still plays dress-up and fairies with her little sister and like-minded friends. She is not on Facebook, nor has she ever expressed a desire to be. Don’t berate me for “stunting” my daughter’s social and technological development. Believe me, I am sure she will “develop socially” as soon as those hormones hit her system! She also knows how to use a computer just fine thank you.

There are certainly many factors involved. Her stage of physical development, her personality, and the fact that she attends a very small Montessori School all surely play a role. But I do truly also believe that part of the fact that she has not yet become interested in “popular teen culture” is that she is not exposed to TV shows and commercials that cause her to emulate those behaviors.

My good friend friend Wishy just sent me a link to a review of an interesting-sounding book by Leonard Sax, the author of Boys Adrift: The Five Factors Driving the Growing Epidemic of Unmotivated Boys and Underachieving Young Men. His new book is about girls: Girls on the Edge: The Four Factors Driving the New Crisis for Girls-Sexual Identity, the Cyberbubble, Obsessions, Environmental Toxins. I urge you to read the review and see what you think.

Meanwhile, I hope that my little girls stay little girls for as long as they need to.

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Bread - Monthly Unplugged Project

By Mom Unplugged, May 2, 2010 2:51 pm

Hello all! Welcome to the month of May. May already? Yikes!

The theme for this month’s Unplugged Project will be:

Bread

Remember, it doesn’t have to be baking bread, it can be crafts with bread, learning about bread, the letter “B,” whatever you want.

If you have never joined our Monthly Unplugged Project, please read more about it here. There are very few rules. The main ones are that the linky below is only for people who have done a project that is somehow, in some way, arguably related to bread. Also, please link to your project post, not just your blog in general. Finally, I’d really appreciate a mention and link to Unplug Your Kids in your project post.

Thanks and I look forward to seeing what creative ideas you come up with this month for bread!

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Homemade Recycled Paper - “Flat” Monthly Unplugged Project

By Mom Unplugged, April 28, 2010 10:58 am

I have always wanted to try making paper so I confess, that is why I chose the theme flat for this month’s Unplugged Project (paper was already taken). We finally did it and it was so fun! I am also fairly proud of our efforts because we recycled not only a lot of used printer paper and newspaper, but also a picture frame which became our deckle. It is amazing what you can do with old picture frames!

This paper was fairly brittle and could never be used for wrapping, however it would make nice note paper or scrapbooking paper. Also, don’t expect a smooth, fine paper. It is quite rough and well, homemade looking! I really love the look of it.

Here’s how we did it.

Make the deckle:

You can get fancy and use wood to construct a frame for your deckle, or buy a ready-made deckle at a craft store, but we did something different. I seem to have a love affair with alternative uses for picture frames, so I used one as the frame for our deckle.

Get an old 8″x10″ wooden picture frame (or other size, but the size of the frame will determine the size of your paper) or buy a cheap one at the dollar store. You’ll also need some aluminum window screen. If you don’t have an old screen at hand you can buy some cut to measure at a hardware store. I bought one foot of screen for $1.12. Aluminum is apparently better than nylon because it holds its shape better and is more rigid.

Cut the screen to the same size as the outside dimension of your frame. The aluminum screen cuts quite easily with a sharp box cutter or X-Acto knife. Staple the screen onto the back of the frame using a staple gun. Try and make it as taught as possible. That’s it!

Gather your materials:

We used old newspaper and some scrap printer paper. You can also use wrapping paper, construction paper, paper bags, any kind of paper really. There is an art to combining short and long fibers, but that was all beyond us at this point.

Also gather up some embellishments if you wish: flower petals, leaves, yarn scraps, glitter, foil scraps. We used construction paper punch outs that were left over after using a fancy hole punch.

You will also need a blender or food processor, some clean dish towels (or a scrap of felt) and a rolling pin.

Make the pulp:

Tear your paper up into smallish pieces about 1″ square, no need to be exact since they are going to be shredded in the blender (my 4 year-old really liked the tearing part).

Fill the blender no more than 3/4 full of water and add a handful of paper scraps.

Blend vigorously until scraps are shredded and combined with the water. Keep adding small amounts of paper and pulsing the blender until your mixture looks like watery porridge (should be about a 4:1 ratio of water to paper).

It might take a few tries to get the consistency right. If you find in the next step that the mixture is too watery, then pour it back in the blender and add some more paper. If it is too thick, then pour back and add some more water.

Last, add any embellishments to your pulp but don’t blend unless you don’t want to shred them up. Be careful you don’t add too much extra stuff because the more extras that are in your pulp, the less the fibers will stick together. You might want to add a bit of glue or cornstarch to your mixture if you put in lots of decorative items.

Make the paper:

Pour the pulp mixture into a basin that is large enough for your deckle to lie flat on the bottom. Tip the basin a bit and slide your deckle in under the watery pulp.

Swish it back and forth a bit to evenly distribute the fibers and lift it out of the water. You should see a thin and even layer of pulp over the entire screen. This is your sheet of paper!

Let the water drip through the screen until only a few drops are falling (a few minutes).

Meanwhile, prepare your towels. I put some folded newspaper down first to help absorb the water, then I topped it off with a clean, folded dishtowel. Apparently felt works really well for this too, but we didn’t have any.

When most of the water has drained from your paper, gently tip the deckle upside down onto your towel or felt.

Gently tap the back of the screen so the paper falls off onto the towel. It should fall in one sheet, but if not, keep tapping and it’ll probably all assemble OK on the towel. Cover the wet paper with another clean, dry dish towel folded in half and roll over it with a rolling pin until much of the water is squeezed out.

The tricky part is getting the paper off the towel. Carefully peel up one end until you can pull the sheet off in one piece. I found that it was actually a bit easier to put a large plate upside down over the paper, lift the towels and the plate all together, and then flip it all right side up so the paper lands on the plate (kind of like getting rolled pie pastry from a sheet of wax paper into a pie dish!). Gently peel off the towel and you’ll have a lovely whole sheet of paper on the plate.

Hang it with clothespins someplace to dry.

Variations:

Newspaper/white scrap paper:

Newspaper/scrap paper and fancy hole punches:

White scrap paper only with grass and flower petals:

Newspaper/white scrap paper with red food coloring added to blender:

Newspaper/white scrap paper with blue food coloring and a bit of light weight kitchen foil added to blender (the foil shredded fine in the blender but I had to add a bit of cornstarch to the pulp because the paper wasn’t holding together well - next time I’ll use less foil, or use foil wrapping paper instead):

Tips & Notes:

  • You can fix holes that occur when you tip your paper off your deckle by making another small piece of paper on the deckle and placing it on top of the holes. It will all blend in together and patch the holes when you roll it with the rolling pin.
  • If your paper doesn’t look good, just toss it back in the bin of pulp and swish to break it up. Try again.
  • I had read that bleach could be added to make the paper white. We tried that on one of our first simple newspaper sheets but it made no difference. Perhaps we didn’t use enough, or didn’t let it sit enough?
  • You will find that your paper will be much lighter in color after it is dry.
  • I really like with printed paper how a random word will surface every now and then and become part of the new paper. If you don’t like this look, then stick to plain paper, or grind your printed paper more thoroughly.
  • Would soaking the torn paper in water overnight or for a long while help improve the texture of the result? Or pouring boiling water over it? See Mother Earth News for more information.
  • I read that using already recycled paper for your pulp produces a sturdier result.
  • A few paper-making friends had the following ideas for me: For color add cotton thread or string (embroidery floss apparently works well). Just cut up and blend with the pulp. Try a streak of ground dried chilis for interest (spices - great idea!), or sharpen some colored pencils and add the shavings. Thanks guys!
  • There is a definite learning curve to paper-making. Our first few tries were not as successful as later ones. Just keep experimenting!
  • Reader Clara beat me to it with the idea of paper for this month’s Unplugged Project and posted this comment:

“Did I send this already? Papermaking! Great recycling project, and artistic and usable! You soak newspaper for a day or so, add a few drops of bleach (or not) and put into an old blender. You strain the pulp and spread a layer on a very FLAT board, place cloth or other paper on top, and weigh down, allow to dry, and while still damp, you can add flower petals, small blossoms and thin leaves to make it pretty. This was in the early 80s, so if you have any corrections, PLEASE add them! You can add thinly shredded cotton cloth before soaking, and this colors and strengthens the paper. You get a cream colored very artsy looking stock. Enjoy!”

Thanks so much Clara! I think we’ll try your method next time. I like that no deckle is necessary.

Links:

The method we used: Learn to Make Homemade Paper (a very thorough tutorial)

Some really good advice from an expert: Instructables Homemade Paper

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Screen Free Week

By Mom Unplugged, April 20, 2010 4:31 pm

It’s Screen Free Week again (April 19th - 21st) and I almost missed it!

I have been really busy with life and school events and have sorely neglected the blog. But since I “BWO,” I won’t apologize.

It is too late to set up my usual Screen Free Week Blog Challenge, however I do encourage everyone to give Screen Free Week a try by reducing or eliminating as many screens as possible in your family’s life for one week. Anything is possible for just one week, right?

If this sounds like an interesting project to you, here are a few links that might help you fill those screen-free days and nights:

WHAT TO DO:

TV-Free Brainstorm

Practical TV-Free Ideas

The “Mommy I’m Bored” Box

Books for an “Unplugged Week”

Try out some of our Unplugged Project ideas

SCREEN-FREE WEEK EXPERIENCES:

Impressions of a Week Without TV

My Mindful Week

Unplugging Yourself

How it Went For Me

You may love it or you may hate it, but you’ll never know unless you try!

PS. Be sure to check out the many other TV and screen-free websites out there for more ideas, information and inspiration. Also: Screenfreeweek.org and Screensmartkids.org.

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